Change is hard. Old habits die hard. We cling to familiar vices and routines even when we know they are destructive. But Scripture calls us to be transformed - to adopt new mindsets that nurture godliness rather than sin (Romans 12:2). It’s time to make a firm resolution to "change your mind" in order to find new life.
Real change requires both repenting and replacing. It's not enough to simply stop a problematic behavior or attitude. We have to confront the root issue and fill the void with constructive new habits. Don't just change. Adopt new habits. Drop old ones.
This two-part process of repentance and renewal is the only way to break free from addiction and patterns of sin. We see this illustrated through the tragic Biblical example of Balaam in the book of Numbers, chapters 22-24. Though gifted as a prophet, Balaam's greed led him to abuse his spiritual influence. His scheming resulted in moral corruption and judgment upon Israel.
Balaam's fundamental mistake was serving his own appetite rather than submitting to God's lordship. Contrast Balaam with the Prodigal Son in Luke 15, who recognized his waywardness and returned to the Father's household. Where Balaam refused to change course despite numerous warnings, the Prodigal humbled himself and confessed, "Father, I have sinned."
We all battle besetting sins and limitations. But wholesale change is possible through God's power. It starts by acknowledging our inability to fix ourselves. We can only receive forgiveness and new life through embracing Jesus' sacrifice on the cross. But that gift must be activated daily as we adopt disciplines like prayer, scripture reading, fasting, and service. These habits reorient our minds and choices around Christ-centered values.
However, replacing old addictions with new passions is rarely easy. This is where community and accountability come into the picture in regard to our growth. Together, believers can encourage each other to hold fast to new commitments rather than sliding back into familiar ruts. It’s like a fitness challenge where daily discipline leads to increasing strength.
Here are 3 key steps for enacting real change:
1. Repent - Be ruthlessly honest about acknowledging patterns of sin, compromise, and addiction. Make a firm break with past rationalizations or blame-shifting.
2. Replace - Don't merely stop the negative behavior; fill that space with new habits and disciplines that point your mind toward godliness. Study Scripture, serve others, and engage spiritual mentors.
3. Realign - Surround yourself with a community to support and strengthen your renewed commitments. Set up structures of accountability to reinforce growth.
Change requires brutal honesty and hard work. But God never leaves us alone in the struggle. Taking hold of His empowering grace can transform our weaknesses into strengths that reflect Christ's image.
Where is God inviting you to change your mind and find new life? What habits or relationships might He be prompting you to alter? How can you take tangible steps to repent, replace, and realign this week? Changing ourselves is difficult - but seeing lives change around us as we grow in godliness makes every effort worthwhile.